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Approaching Online Dating - Adult Dating vs Mainstream Dating

We all can take a guess at the major differences between your approach to these very different styles of dating, however you may be surprised to know that there are actually many similarities, or there should be. At the end of the day the aim of both types is to meet someone you find attractive in some way, so your approach shouldn't differ much with regards to the core strategy. So let's run through the process of adult dating vs general dating and see what differs and what we might be doing wrong on the casual dating side.

Profile

Your profile is obviously very important as it is your own personal window allowing people to peer through when they are shopping for a relationship. There you present yourself as best you can, hoping to catch someone's interest via an enticing photo, fascinating content or if you share similar hobbies. Where people perhaps go wrong when considering filling out a profile on a hookup site is focusing too much on actually being on a hookup site. Members on a casual dating site will be wanting different things from a member on a general dating site but what people find attractive in one-another will essentially be the same. Therefore copious images of your private area (dick pics) isn't the way forward and perhaps you need to take a more subtle approach with what you reveal. Women tend to react more positively to a nice selfie in which you are smiling and there's nothing wrong with and image of your bare torso so they know what to expect and are hopefully impressed. But like any dating site put forward your best qualities and features and don't include anything you're not comfortable with just because you're on an adult dating site.  This also goes for the content you write about yourself; make it interesting and fun and not just about your favourite position in bed or your fascination with being spanked whilst wearing latex underwear.  You may just want to have a one night stand but people want to feel relaxed emotionally when meeting, so divulging information about yourself that isn't related to sex will enable them to do that and also connect on a personal level.

Messaging

This really applies to all dating rather than just sites for hooking up but keep it clean to begin with. I have spoken to numerous women through dating sites and they have all at one point in their dating journey been sent dick pics or overly forward messages from guys, some of them requesting very strange things such as permission to suck toes etc. Now this sort of behaviour is fine and to some extent expected on a dating site designed for people to meet for a one night stand, but even so you need to build a rapport with this person before you dive right in with your respected perversions. A lot rides on the first message but you shouldn't be put off by rejection as you just might not be that person's cup of tea, however an engaging first message will improve your chances of a reply greatly.  Then, once you have exchanged messages and know a little more about each other, you can begin to flirt a little more and discuss more x rated interests.

Meeting Up With Your New Fuckbuddy (The Date)

The destination and agenda of the date is dependent on the ground work both parties have put in during the messaging stage. If nothing overly substantial has been discussed in terms of what you are both meeting up to do, then treat this like any other normal date. Meet in a bar or club and enjoy the evening, knowing that unlike a normal date, this will probably end with sex - if both parties like each other. However if you have arranged for a casual hookup via steamy sext messages then you can feel confident in booking a hotel room for the evening. Even if this is the case make an effort when meeting your arranged fling as it's still not entirely on the cards and you want to make a good first impression. What you shouldn't do is 'eat and run' meaning don' have sex and then never see them again. By doing this you might be eliminating a potential fuckbuddy for the future.

The world of Adult Dating is one where if done right you can certainly have a lot of fun. So search around and find the right one for you.